May 2026 to August 2026
Men 40 and more
results: 41 - 60 of 140
Languages: English & Other
Hobbies/Interests: Foodie/DIY projects/Cooking/Baking/Calligraphy
Introduction:
Prefer someone from Laos or surrounding countries, other
countries
are OK too. I’ve just recently arrived in Vientiane, Laos in Sept
of 2025
from America. I plan on starting over and making a new life here.
Looking
to make friends and possibly more. Please speak a little English
so that
we would be able to communicate because my Laos isn't very good.
I
don't know anyone here other than relatives. Looking for friends
to show
me around the city. I want to make friends and possibly start a
relationship. Please be emotionally mature, I don't need any
drama in my
life. In the subject line, please add your name, where you are
from and
what you are looking for and attach a photo of yourself so that I
don't think
that your reply is spam. Thanks
Hobbies/Interests: Art Movies Music Reading
Introduction:
Hello. Yorkshire male looking for a female Any status to chat
to and be friends with not looking for a relationship just
talk and cheeky banter
Languages: English & French
Hobbies/Interests: Acrylic painting, walks
Introduction:
Looking for a Genuine Pen Pal
Hi! I'm a 50-year-old separated man looking to connect with a
kind, thoughtful female pen pal.
Life is always more interesting when you can share ideas,
stories, and different perspectives with someone. Whether we
talk about everyday life, current events, travel, books,
dreams, or simply how your day went, I'd love to get to know
someone through honest and meaningful conversation.
I'm easygoing, open-minded, a good listener, and enjoy
learning how other people see the world. I'm not looking for
perfection, just a genuine connection with someone who enjoys
thoughtful conversations, laughter, and getting to know each
other one message at a time.
If you're looking for a friendly, respectful, and engaging pen
pal, I'd love to hear from you. Let's see where a simple
conversation takes us!
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Sea & River Angling, Cooking, Wine, Whiskies, Pubs, Cycling Reading, Writing, Music especially Blues and Rock, Gigs, Theatres, Playing Ukulele & Harmonica, Old Black and White Films, British Sitcoms of the 60’-90s.
Address: HIDDEN
Introduction:
Hello I am a 51 Builder with a lot of soul. I am looking for a woman pen pal to
exchange handwritten letters with on a regular basis with a view to building a
solid friendship then relationship based upon love and mutual interests. For
clarity I have been single almost ten years. I am a
poetic creative soul with a wild side although I do value my peace and quiet
too. I’ve already had my children who are
growing up into fine young people. I am not PC or Woke and tend to speak my
mind. I am well read albeit with little formal education and I have many hobbies
and interests although I am at heart a simple man who still calls a spade a
spade. Your age or ethnicity are not as important to me as your personality,
sense of fun, sense of humour and your ability to still be able to let love into
your heart. However you should be of an age to have things in common with
me. I live in England so ideally I’m looking for someone who may be prepared to
visit me in time or at a distance where I can visit you. Let’s fall in love the old
fashioned way by exchanging
thoughtful heartfelt letters at least one a month. I yearn for the simpler days as
should you.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Many see my profile.
Address: HIDDEN
Introduction:
I’m a 51 year old single dad in Surrey. Catholic, right-of-centre, fluid.
Disabled/mobile decorator with own flat. 4 kids live abroad. Love books,
writing, nature, sea fishing, walks, cycling, pubs, museums, cooking,
paranormal. Big music fan (Blues, Rock, Metal, Jazz, Classical, Ska, Reggae);
sing, play Ukulele & Harmonica. Value manners, romance, cosy nights.
adventurous but mostly monogamous; dislike nagging/arguing. Seeking age-
appropriate Caucasian, East Asian, mixed-race, Hawaiian, or Native American
woman. Want a demure, lady-like, passive partner for snail-mail friendship
turning to a relationship. Dealbreakers: drugs, homophobia, anti-Semitism,
opposing breastfeeding.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Woodworking
Introduction:
I am a married man looking to make female friends. I am not
looking to replace her but I certainly crave the prospect of
stimulating and exciting adult conversation. I love nature,
crafts, and massage. Please say hi and tell me the most
interesting thing about you!!
Introduction:
Hi I'm Steve a 51 y. o. male tall slim build salt pepper hair
I'm looking to make a few friends and share some emails and
laughs I don't really people to good , my life isn't
spectacular or glamorous I try to stay low key and simple my
hobbies are basic some are strange, no real subjects are taboo
I'm up for some things and if I'm not I'll tell you, no real
problem with topics that are wide and open.
Introduction:
I'm Ahmed Masawudu a Fifty two years educator in the high
school. I am from Ghana west Africa also formally called gold
Coast, by the colonial masters. I currently live in Kumasi,
the capital of ASHANTI Region. My interest is helping the
underprivileged children in our community. I need pempals all
over the world for us to collaborate to help in making the
world a better place for all.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Reading , movies
Introduction:
Hi, 52 year old looking for chat. Just looking for new friends and am bored,
lol
Hobbies/Interests: Films, nature, dreams and symbolism, sometimes flirting
Introduction:
Socially strangled male seeks female pen pal. I tend to be very open and honest
and find women are generally the same. As this is a pen pal site I’m not looking
for a romantic relationship and I’m married. I’m looking for someone who
doesn’t need to rely on a deep connection and long essays to feel comfortable
- an open mind and heart requires connection, regardless of how.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Letter writing, making friends, travelling, Nature, Tree planting, Education , Science, Humanism
Address: HIDDEN
Introduction:
I am a Ugandan educator , environmentalist, humanist , farmer and
proprietor of Kasese Humanist School based in Uganda, We provide
nursery, primary and secondary education. I am interested in linking
up with like minded folks in the United States, UK , Canada,
Australia for friendship and mutual collaboration. I welcome both
emails and Snail mails and will respond to all that hits my inbox.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: music, RPGs, email, websites
Address: HIDDEN
Introduction:
If you decide to write, write more than just a few sentences. Also, I don't do
Messaging Apps! Hello, my name is Frank. I am a 53 year old male living in
the beautiful city of Pittsburgh Pennsylvania. I am 6’ (188cm), and
overweight (although working on it). I have brown hair, but shaved bald, and
brown eyes. Due to a birth defect, I have collapsed arches which gives a
constant state of pain. I make it work out, and get what I need to done. I
would considerate myself as an honest, and trustworthy person. When I
provide advice for someone, I always think of what’s in their best interest
even if it isn’t in mine. I think this is a rare qualify though since many people
these days are self-centered and selfish. I do suffer from agoraphobia which
makes it hard to go out. With that in mind, I will only go out when necessary
and rarely any other time. As for interests, I have a number of websites. I
also like to write to people via email, but will also settle for postal mail. I
almost always have music playing in the background which leans towards
alternative, and rock. I also like RPGs such as D&D, but not in a group. When
possible, I will walk throughout my apartment to try to get some exercise
until the pain is too much. In case it is important, I am atheist, single (not
interested in a long distance romantic relationship), unemployed, and
heterosexual. As for the type of people I am looking for, I wouldn’t mind
someone of similar qualities to my own, but all around good people is fine. If
you would like to know more about me, feel free to write me. The email
address provided is as short of an address I can make. I will reply from a
slightly longer address in my reply. Thank you for taking the time to reading
this ad, and wish you all well. Also, if you decide to write, then write more
than just a few sentences. I will not reply to very short emails, and I am sure
you can tell me enough to meet the only requisite I have.
Hobbies/Interests: maths & sciences
Introduction:
/* Quiet man would like a caring & friendly woman penpal */
my name is jason, i live in the u, k, i am looking for a caring &
friendly woman to be my internet penpal. & it's important that
this woman is genuine & who wants to be my life long internet
friend, this, i believe is, Rare, but i hope for it(!) i like
maths & sciences, & i am a quiet & deep thinking & highly
intelligent man, i want someone who writes proper responses, not
just hello or hi, i won't answer those! i love truth! & can
'smell' lies, just like a hound can smell things! yes, Really! it
doesn't matter where you live, i'd love to have an american woman
to write to me, ! because i like the differences, but it doesn't
matter, ! can you please put sassociations in your e-mail subject
line when writing to me !, thankyou
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Hockey, antiques, seasons, flirt
Introduction:
Hello from Northern Michigan. Summer is right around the corner.
My job is getting underway. Still a bit cold along the beach.
Retired Military. Over all it was a great time. A question for
you, ever have an affair? What was the reason? Ever tempted to
have one? Why?
Languages: English
Introduction:
Hi there. I'm Matt, a 53yo guy in the south of England. I've
just stumbled across this site and thought I'd join up to see
what's what. I'm happy to chat to pretty much anybody unless
they plan to extract money or similar from me! I've been
online for over 30 years, so can sniff out a fake or a scammer
pretty quickly! Interests wise, I'm a big music fan and go to
quite a few gigs and festivals each year. I enjoy cooking, but
I'm more of a recipe-follower than an instinctive chef. I've
also become a bit of a gym-bunny over the last 18 months or
so, losing around 20kg (that's 44lbs for our colonial
cousins!) and toning up all over. On top of that, I like to do
long distance hikes, recently completing a 100km (62-mile)
hike in just under 28hrs - that one hurt! So, drop me a line
if you fancy a chat sometime!
Languages: German, English & French
Hobbies/Interests: Writing/reading, traveling, sports, culinary arts and more
Introduction:
Good - you are reading these lines, hope you will continue.
Why should you write to me? I am 53 years old, Swiss,
working in IT-related consulting (yeah... boring) and
currently live somewhere in Asia. So, these are the facts. I
might sound serious and strict (that is what I am told quite
often) but believe me, I am not... young at heart, goofy,
love to laugh, easy going - these are other aspects that
describe me. I have a lot of interests... for instance, I
love to learn and study (not necessarily STEM-topics), know
a lot about things nobody actually cares about, love to
write and read, exploring other countries and cultures, am
fairly sporty (used to compete on a semi-professional level,
didn't make it pro - lack of talent? Laziness? Shift of
priorities?) and I love culinary arts. I am 6 ft tall,
normal built, with a mix of grey and black hair. If you are
still reading and feel like writing, go ahead (I will reply,
no matter what), if you have any questions, ask.
Introduction:
Hello, I’m a 54 year old American man who recently lost someone close to me.
That’s made me sad and sometimes I feel lonely, so id appreciate any epistolary
company you might be able to offer. I work full time as an accounting manager.
I like to read, listen to music, walk, and travel. I’m looking forward to my 75th
birthday in 21 years, when I plan to resume smoking cigarettes. (I quit some
years ago.) I intend to end my life as god intended, drunk everyday and
smoking cigarettes. I love god, don’t you?
Introduction:
If you send me a letter in crayon you might not get a reply.
Color markers maybe. Hahaha, im easy going, funny yet can be
serious. With that said, im looking for a fun silly woman to
laugh with. That doesn't mind a little flirting. Life too
serious to go with a little flirting. But we can also do non
flirting.. then you deal with the serious side of me. No im not
crazy... shhh crazy people go to jail, insane people get put in
the nut house... hahaha
Disclaimer: uhm... I will not send you money nor ask for money.
I will not marry you to help you get your green card. If you
have large boobs then maybe marriage ?.. I will not ask for
your naked pictures nor will I send you my naked
pictures(scary enough to see myself naked) hahaha looking to
make human connection. Hey not that type funny girl, shh we'll
talk later ??
Any age, unless you are sending me crayon letters then
write... I see you back there being all shy... lol
Paranormal moment: wines glasses sitting on a counter far from
the edge and all the sudden it falls over and breaks. No body
in the room, zero vibrations and not pets in the house. And
that isn't the weirdest thing that happened here.
Introduction:
Hi I’m a 54 year old American man looking for penpals all over the world,
especially this afternoon. I’ve been working around the house and yard most of
the day and I’m preparing to fire up the grill, drink a few beers, and listen to
music. You’re welcome to join me. I also like to read, road trip/travel, and go for
long walks, both solo and with my dogs.
Introduction:
Hi there, emerging from a time of loss and change and looking to meet new
people across the country and around the world. I like to walk, lift, travel, read. I
don’t care your age or location.



