May 2026 to August 2026
Men 40 and more
results: 81 - 100 of 140
Introduction:
The kind of pen pal I'm actually looking for
I've spent enough time here to know there are plenty of
interesting people
around-but interesting alone is not what I'm after.
I'm looking for a connection with substance: someone thoughtful,
honest, and
willing to go beyond small talk and safe answers.
To be clear, this is not romantic. But it is personal. I'm
talking about the
kind of friendship that carries weight-the kind where both people
are
willing to ask better questions, have uncomfortable
conversations, and tell
the truth with care. I'm not looking for a placeholder, a passing
distraction, or a surface-level exchange. I'm looking for
someone who
values depth, emotional intelligence, and the kind of honesty
that actually
makes a difference in a life. If you're the sort of person who
can challenge
and be challenged, who isn't afraid of nuance, and who
understands that
meaningful connection comes with a little discomfort, then maybe
this is
worth answering.
Languages: English & Japanese
Hobbies/Interests: Music, sleeping, relaxing
Introduction:
I am a man close to be deaf, missing a real woman to know and exchange
mails with. I want to know somebody from Sweden, Denmark, Norway ,
Germany or Netherlands. I love to write about romantic, intimancy and
private things too. Are you an openminded woman , you are so welcome to
write to me. You an send me a real picture of yourself to me, so I know you
are in real. No money beggars at all. I am not interested of these scammers.
No chatting from the start, maybe later. I want to write really openminded
private personal mail to you. Maybe we will meet each other in future ? Don’t
be scared to write me and tell me everything about yourself. Thanks and
take care !
Languages: English, German & Other
Introduction:
I am a 58 yrs old guy in Northern
Germany, with
many interests and hobbies - and I would
like to
correpond with nice, friendly and honest
people
from
all over the world, who wants to learn
something
from other countries, cultures & traditions,
etc. I
am
looking for new pals from Italy, France,
South
Africa,
San Marino, Greece, Spain, Sweden, India,
Pakistan, Dominion of Canada,
Sweden, United States (especially from
Guam,
Puerto
Rico, Hawaii, Wyoming and Montana but
other
states
are also welcome), UK, Korea, Japan,
China, Brazil,
New Zealand or APO/FPO and from
anywhere else
in
the world. But NOT from South Africa,
Uganda or
from The
Phillippines! I love writing long &
interesting
emails
and
maybe snail mail letters later.
Indeed, I prefer emails, but snail mail also
is fine
and
ok with me! ;-) But, I do NOT want to
write
with lazy people, who only writes 1-2 or 3
emails or letters. Don't waste my
time!
And:
NEVER ASK ME FOR MONEY!! When you
need
money,
go to your bank or ask your grandmother -
but not
me! ;-)
Introduction:
I look for penpals from around the world,
no matter if male or female. I write in
English, German and some other
languages. At first, I would like to
exchange emails only - but snail mail
probably later. I have lots of hobbies &
interests, but I might tell you more about
this in my future emails. Sorry, but I do
NOT want penpals from Uganda, The
Phillippines and from South Africa -- and I
also do NOT reply when you're asking me
for money. When you need money, ask
your bank or your grandmother, but not
me. And when you only write "Hello. How
are you?", I will also ignore such silly
emails.
Introduction:
Hi, has, or is anyone talking to a girl, she goes by
cutiepie. If so, or if you're reading this. Email me please
before I won't be able to do this anymore. Medical reasons
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Creating romantic and passionate poetry and short stories.
Introduction:
I am looking for sweet inspiration for my romantic poems and
short stories. I am also looking for a girl who can make a
nice cup of coffee, because mine tastes like cats pee. I also
indulge in photography, psychology, humour, intellectual
endeavours and trying to boil an egg without turning it into a
golf ball. One day I am hoping to have a morning shave without
cutting myself. If I cannot succeed in this then I will grow
a beard.
Hobbies/Interests: Books, photography, history, food markets.
Introduction:
Lifelong wanderer & story collector seeking platonic cultural
exchange!
About Me:
Passionate traveler and tea enthusiast! Having been fortunate
enough to live in eight countries, I’ve found that the best
part of travel is the everyday conversations along the way.
I’m joining this platform for strictly platonic correspondence
with fellow explorers—whether you're a seasoned backpacker or
planning your first big trip.
What We Can Share:
Travel Wisdom: Solo travel safety, moving abroad tips, and
budget itineraries.
Cultural Swaps: Daily life stories, local traditions, and
hidden gems.
Conversation Starter: Tell me the best (or worst!) travel
advice you’ve ever received, or the top destination on your
bucket list!
Languages: English & Spanish
Introduction:
Married man 59, without intimacy in marriage for the last 10 years.
I am looking for connection with any open minded women who have , or
not , similar situation and need to spark their life. The feeling of
loneliness is often there. I know it is frequent in long lasting
marriages. I really miss feeling alive again. Any woman feeling the
same in her marriage?. How do you cope with it??
Languages: English & Spanish
Introduction:
Married man 59, without intimacy in marriage for the last 10
years. I am looking for connection with any open minded women who
have , or not , similar situation and need to spark their life. The
feeling of loneliness is often there. I know it is frequent in long
lasting marriages. I really miss feeling alive again. Any woman
feeling the same in her marriage?. How do you cope with it??
Languages: English & French
Introduction:
My name is Sergey, I am 59 years old. I am looking for penpals to
exchange letters and postal viewcards by snail mail.
Languages: English & French
Introduction:
My name is Sergey and I am a male from Russia, 59 years old. I would
like to exchange lettes and postal viewcards
Hobbies/Interests: Roller coasters dancing edging boundaries
Introduction:
This is online, virtual, not real life. I don’t want romance or business
opportunities. I want to explore various taboo rabbit holes and role play. Don’t
want a stable or harem. Unless you do. No judgement, fun play only
Introduction:
Single 60 enjoying retired life. Interested in so many things ride a
motorbike and garden etc. Thanks for reading hope to hear from you.
Arthur
Introduction:
Hello there, just looking for a lovely lady to communicate with about anything
and everything. Flirting and naughtiness welcome.
Introduction:
Females only please, from the UK, love a laugh and joke
because life is to short. Married with 3 boys. Open minded
about all most anything, drop me a line and start a new chapter
.
Languages: English
Introduction:
Recent widower…looking to begin the next chapter. I am mainly looking for
connection and exploration of how you view the world…your every day life…
what gets you excited?
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: hiking, walking and exploring
Introduction:
I am a 60 year old married professional male who has a
relationship which has gone cold and stale. I am now more like a
caretaker only. I'm not a dog in heat or a pervert, I just want
to feel connected and cared about. (For those who struggle to
understand the English language. This means that this ad is not
about one thing.
How would you like someone...
Who would actually talk to you regularly.
Who would truly listen and respond with more than "whatever" or
"uh huh."
Who would give helpful advice and support.
Who actually cares about you, your feelings, your likes and
dislikes.
Who will treat you as an equal and as a princess.
Who will take the time to listen and get know the real you.
Who will open a door for you and show you true respect.
Who will put a twinkle in your eyes from the excitement of a
text, an email, a call or visit.
Who will inspire dreams, fairy tales and fantasies.
Who can help cure your feelings of being alone, hopelessness and
your heart of despair.
Who will challenge, engage and ease your mind.
Who will inspire you to grow in heart, mind and spirit.
If you can say yes to these things, then maybe you should
contact me. There's no need for any us to be lonely and
unappreciated.
I look forward to your email. Please me real and sincere. Having
someone to share things with would be truly amazing.
I will answer all those who respond in some way, unless it's a
scammer wanting money. Respect is a big thing with me. I give
it and expect to receive it. No one likes those who put ads up
and then won't respond. Also, if you say you want to write, then
have time and make the effort to do so. **Be sincere and speak
from your heart.....** There's no reason to be alone; the
world is just too big to do so. Notice to scammers: I can check
your pictures and once
found out, you're done. Also, one line repsonses will be
deleted. No time for games.)
Languages: English & Other
Hobbies/Interests: Travel, photo
Introduction:
I am a single danish man. I live about about 60 km from
Copenhagen, which are out danish capital. Seeks only females
Introduction:
Single, mature UK male looking for friends who enjoy long and
informative emails. Im a genuine laid back man and would like a
lasting friendship.
Introduction:
Im Paul and Im here to make friendships, Im a fun, friendly
guy, happy to exchange pics and Im looking forward to some
exciting friendships. Lots of banter, a little flirting, Let's
share some great moments.



